When we started dating 2.5 years ago, i hated when he or anyone else bought me anything, but he did anyways, now im ok with it but i dont ask him to buy me things all the time.

Dec 30th was my 18th birthday and he didn't get me anything. He was gonna take me out for dinner and a movie but i ended up wanting subway (i had a giftcard) and i have a movie card for the movies.

We agreed that instead he would pay me back 40$ so i could order my new bed spread online.
But when it came time to pay me back, he said no and that its not fair that im asking him to pay me.

I said well its my birthday present, and hes like yeah well ur birthday is 5 days after christmas its not fair. I told him it doens't matter if my birthday is 5 days or 5 months after christmas its still my birthday (his birthday is on the 18th on jan and i got him 120$ worth of stuff he had asked for and been talking about forever).

I feel like a bitch by complaining about it, but i have a right to be mad don't I? I mean we get along great and dont have any problems, but its not fair.

and during the superbowl i suggested we split a pizza and he didn't have cash on him so i said i would pay the 20$ and u pay me back, and hes like but i dont wanna owe u anything i have bought you so much stuff lately .. and i pointed out to him that he hasn't gotten me a single things since christmas (not dinner, not the movies, not skiing which was his idea.. only a cadbury surprise i had to pout to get).

Grr.. this just annoys me because i feel like a bad gf complaining that hes not buying me anything, but the birthday thing just annoys me.

He is actually really loving and caring. he gives me back rubs often because i injured my back, and we cuddle alot, but its just this money thing thats making him seem weird.

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I feel selfish saying this, but i am really mad my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday!

When we started dating 2.5 years ago, i hated when he or anyone else bought me anything, but he did anyways, now im ok with it but i dont ask him to buy me things all the time.

Dec 30th was my 18th birthday and he didn't get me anything. He was gonna take me out for dinner and a movie but i ended up wanting subway (i had a giftcard) and i have a movie card for the movies.

We agreed that instead he would pay me back 40$ so i could order my new bed spread online.
But when it came time to pay me back, he said no and that its not fair that im asking him to pay me.

I said well its my birthday present, and hes like yeah well ur birthday is 5 days after christmas its not fair. I told him it doens't matter if my birthday is 5 days or 5 months after christmas its still my birthday (his birthday is on the 18th on jan and i got him 120$ worth of stuff he had asked for and been talking about forever).  

I feel like a bitch by complaining about it, but i have a right to be mad don't I? I mean we get along great and dont have any problems, but its not fair.

and during the superbowl i suggested we split a pizza and he didn't have cash on him so i said i would pay the 20$ and u pay me back, and hes like but i dont wanna owe u anything i have bought you so much stuff lately .. and i pointed out to him that he hasn't gotten me a single things since christmas (not dinner, not the movies, not skiing which was his idea.. only a cadbury surprise i had to pout to get).

Grr.. this just annoys me because i feel like a bad gf complaining that hes not buying me anything, but the birthday thing just annoys me.

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You have every right to feel like a bad girlfriend to this poor boy.

I hope he's OK.

what should i get him.. a post-it and a snickers? lol